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life travel

the color of skin cancer

spf50I recently spent a week in sunny sunny southern California, and managed to get myself quite burned. Walking around Sea World, nonetheless – I wasn’t even laying out on the beach asking for it. I slathered on my husband’s SPF 50 at the beginning of the day, and thought I would be good.

Nope.

Throughout the afternoon, I kept asking how the back of my neck and shoulders looked, and my husband insisted I looked fine. I shouldn’t have taken his word for it – I know I’m not an insta-burner. I know it takes half a day for the true extent of my sun damage to display itself.

Luckily for me, I have spent a teeny amount of time in the Virginia sun this summer. My arms have seen enough to not be stark white, as have my face and neck – and by neck, I mean the neck that shows when I wear my regular, apparently fairly high-neck, t-shirts. So any skin that I normally expose to the sky only got the tiniest bit burned, there was only a small amount of peelage.

But, on Sea World day, I decided to wear a new, adorable shirt. Which exposed more skin than I usually expose. (Don’t get excited, it’s still very much classified a t-shirt, with actual sleeves and everything.) And every bit of skin that hasn’t seen the sun in years, burned. Burned bad. It peeled, over a week and a half, the most painful peeling I’ve ever experienced. And the skin that emerged was pink. Pink! I can’t ever recall having a burn that did anything but peel off to expose a beautiful tan.

My back and shoulders have stopped hurting, and I have been able to resume my nearly scalding hot showers. I have to admit, though, I haven’t looked at them to see what color they may have ended up. My arms however, have what most people would consider a nice color. A nice tan, but not leathery or obnoxious. (Obnoxious tans are the ones arrived at in a tanning bed, or through very deliberate laying out in the sun. You know the look.) Looking at my arms, though, all I see is the color of skin cancer. I see a glimpse of sun-spotted middle-aged lady arms. It doesn’t look good to me, and it most certainly doesn’t look healthy. I can’t wait till mid-fall when my tan finally fades to my own natural white with a tinge of yellowy-olive. I think I may just find myself a dermatologist to start cataloging my moles – and I’m definitely gonna start using more of that SPF 50.

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confession technogeeky

aaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

wesleyOMG, OMG, I just posted a comment on Wil Wheaton’s blog! I didn’t even know about his blog until this morning, after I read my husband’s latest post. Once I found out about it, of course, I had to go read it. And lo and behold, he had a recent post about conventions! So then I was compelled to leave a comment with a link to my latest post about conventions.

As a young teen, I had the biggest crush on Wesley Crusher. My bff at the time had a more reasonable crush on the more studly and charming Riker. But I’ve always been a sucker for the smart ones.

I was pleased to find that Mr. Wheaton has a rather interesting blog, and surprised to read about his trek to drop off his son at college. I mean, it wasn’t THAT long ago that he was an obnoxiously smart 12-year-old on TNG, was it? Well, it apparently was that long ago. Cuz he’s off dropping his son off at college …

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blizzcon wins

Since getting married, I have been introduced to a new world: the world of conventions. And I have found, that I actually like them.

I think I like conventions because I am a bit of a hobby collector. I like to try out new things on a frequent basis. There are things I’ll never give up – like shopping – but there are others that come and go as my mood changes – like knitting or landscaping (that’s a mood I’m not likely to be in for awhile) or particular video games. And going to conventions lets me get a brief glimpse into a hobby, so I feel like I can add it to my list.

In my first married year, I went to a one-day Comic-Con in Baltimore. My second married year, I went to a 4-day Star Trek Convention in Las Vegas. And this year, I went to the two-day Blizzcon. While I enjoyed them all (though, admittedly, 4 days is WAY too much time to spend with fanatics), Blizzcon wins, hands down.

I have to concede that Blizzcon is hosted by Blizzard who makes millions and millions of dollars on their video games, most notably, World of Warcraft, which has 9 million subscribers who gladly pay $14.99 each and every month for the pleasure of playing. (yeah … I’m one of those 9 million …) The other conventions were hosted by … well, fanboys. People who just love comics or star trek sooooo much, and they have a deep desire, down in their hearts, to have a venue where all the fanboys of the world can come together and be all fanboy-ey. So there is definitely a money discrepancy that can’t be ignored. And, well, more money gets you better stuff.

Point one for Blizzcon: Ticket distribution. Ticket pickup was available the day before, or during any of the convention days. The Star Trek convention used this model as well. But Blizzcon split the alphabet up into about 30 groups, and had in essence, 30 lines. 30 minutes before the start of ticket pickup, my husband and I got into our line. Less than 30 minutes after ticket pickup officially started, we had our tickets (and swag bags). At the Star Trek convention, we got in line 30 minutes before ticket pickup officially started. The one line. When we finally got to the front of the line, hours later, the alphabet was split into a couple of groups, where 10 people were there to get us all squared away. It was a pretty miserable wait.

Point two for Blizzcon: Open space! The main stage was set up with thousands of chairs – but also wide open space to either side. There was wide open space around the food vendors. There was wide open space around the various booths. There wasn’t too much open space – but enough of it to accommodate the thousands of people as they wandered from one place to another. The vendor room at the Star Trek convention was overly crowded, and some booths seemed more like a personal garage sale than honest-to-goodness Star Trek Shtuff dealers. The booths that were expected to be busy didn’t have enough space – or cordoned off space – for people to line up in an orderly fashion.

Point three for Blizzcon: Staff! The staff walking around Blizzcon all had little radios. So they could keep up with what was going on. So they could radio for help if needed. They were well-connected, and if you asked them a question, they knew the answer. Or they could get it for you quickly. At the Star Trek convention, most of the staff didn’t know what was going on. If you asked a question, they didn’t know the answer. And they couldn’t point you in the direction of anyone who did. They were just people with pens hanging from their necks, carrying clipboards, who got in for free by volunteering to be staff.

Point four for Blizzcon: Not ridiculously priced food! The Star Trek convention was held in the Las Vegas Hilton. Complete with $2 Hilton candy bars and $4 bottles of water. Blizzcon was held in the Anaheim Convention Center. With $6 pizza and $1 candy bars. Maybe still a little overpriced, but not so much so that you find yourself going hungry in protest of serious price gouging.

Point five for Blizzon: Funny Humor. The Star Trek convention people made a Star Trek puppet musical that was supposed to be funny but was just plain odd and uncomfortable. The winners of the Star Trek movie contest had movies that were again, just … strange and mostly boring. The ‘movies’ and ‘promos’ that Blizzard put together were hilarious! And the winner of the ‘Comedy’ Blizzcon movie contest was a laugh out loud riot. I know not everyone shares the same sense of humor – and my own sense of humor is admittedly not exactly main stream – but I really didn’t get how anyone could find the Star Trek convention brand of humor … well, humorous.

Point six for Blizzcon: Gracious Hosts! Never, at any time, did anyone with a mic at Blizzcon get snippy with the audience. Never, at any time, were they anything but glad that we had come. Never, at any time, did they leave a sour taste in my mouth or make me feel like they were just grown up spoiled brats. I wish I could say the same for the Star Trek convention hosts.

So, there you have it. Blizzcon, with 6 points and Star Trek Convention 0. Some of the issues would be hard to fix without a lot more money – but the Creation Entertainment folks could certainly learn a lot from the Blizzcon book of entertaining. I understand that the first Blizzcon didn’t go off nearly as well as this last one – but they definitely learned from their mistakes to throw one heck of a party.

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technogeeky

tada! podcasts!

So, after having to work really hard to get b3 to read the blog I wrote just for him (ok, so maybe it was for b1 and b2, too), one of my coworkers suggested that I should start doing podcasts as well. So I googled ‘make podcast’, and found some great tutorials that all suggested audacity paired with the lame mp3 encoder for podcast creation – and then I checked my list of available blog plugins, and lo and behold, there was podPress.

The hardest part was figuring out how to turn on my microphone. I’ve never needed it before, so it would seem that it was all turned off in some obscure windows audio input volume controller. (Hint: it doesn’t do any good to raise the mic volume if you don’t check the ‘select’ box under the mic input.)

So, once I got all that squared away, I found a nice short blog – ode to transfats – recorded it, exported to mp3, uploaded to my site, and added it to my ode to transfats post.

So – b3 – you have no more excuses! You know my site (c’mon …. it’s my NAME …) – and you have ears.

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travel

dc

I love Washington DC. Even though I haven’t been downtown for months and I’m only 40 miles away, DC will always have a special place in my memories.

DC was my first big adventure – my first solo outing into the great wide world. I grew up in a smallish town – 35,000 people – in Washington state. This town of 35,000 people had a sister town of about another 15,000, and together, this community of 50,000 people was self-contained. We had two shopping malls – one with 15 stores, the other with 50. There were 3 high schools, 7 grocery stores, 3 McDonalds, a Target and a Walmart. There was no need to venture to the ‘Big City’ an hour away, unless you really wanted to go to the zoo, or you were going to the airport. And so we didn’t. We stayed put in our comfortable lives, lumberjacks and mill workers. It’s a good life, full of hard work and some of the most beautiful country in the nation.

But I was born with the spirit of an adventurer. I wanted to try out that thing called ‘college’. I wanted to see what there was to see beyond the bounds of my hometown. I wanted to marry someone that I hadn’t even met yet. Which is what led me to fill out 37 scholarship applications my senior year. And which is what brought me to the nation’s capitol, 2 months before my graduation.

I had qualified for the final round in a scholarship/internship program based in DC. They were flying me out for 3 days, all expenses paid! Me! Little ol’, 18-year-old, from backwoods Washington state, me. I didn’t think I stood a chance against all the competition I was sure to have, but it didn’t matter. It didn’t matter if I made the final cut; I was getting a free trip to the capitol. Of the whole country. On the EAST coast.

And so I did what any 18 year old about to fly 2000 miles away from home for the very first time ever with no parents would do: I went to the public library and checked out two tourist guides to Washington DC, and started planning out what I wanted to see. Ok, so maybe that’s not what every barely-adult’s first response would be – but I was convinced that this might be my only opportunity to ever see the capitol.

Now, this 3 days in DC was going to be full of interviews, and evaluations, and tours, and lunch meetings, and who knew what else. There was no guarantee that I was going to get any time at all to do any sight-seeing. But – just in case there was some downtime – I was going to be prepared. I read those books from front to back, studied the maps, and learned all I needed to do to use the metro. I knew all about the farecard machines, and all the different passes I could buy. I knew I had to stick my little cardboard card in the slot at the turnstile, and it would let me through. I knew about all the different train lines, and where the transfer stations were. I was ready.

I got lucky with the interviews, passed some tests on the first go-round, and ended up with a free morning. I had to be back by 2 pm for an interview with Yet Another Important Person, but I was determined to make the most of it. I got up as early as I could bear to make it to the metro, for the opening of the National Zoo at 6 am.

It was a rainy day in May. I had an umbrella and a travel guide from my public library, and I asked the courtesy hotel shuttle driver to take me to the nearest metro station. I asked him if he could pick me up at noon, and he gave me a business card and told me to call the number when I was ready to be picked up.

And so there I was at the metro station. Putting my money into the farecard machine. Retrieving my farecard and 5 dollars change, all in quarters. Unfazed, I took the card and scooped up the change into my pocket, and started on my adventure. I made my way with the rush hour crowd onto a train, and headed to the National Zoo. It involved a transfer from the Orange Line to the Red Line, but I was up to the challenge.

I made it to my stop, and got off the train. After exiting the metro station, I spotted a convenience store where I bought a little carton of milk and a granola bar. Continuing my adventure as I enjoyed my breakfast, I walked for several blocks before I realized I was going the wrong direction. And so I turned around, and headed to the zoo.

At 7 am on a rainy Thursday morning, you pretty much get the zoo to yourself. None of the buildings are open, but the grounds are, and you can wander around reading about all the animals, and even get a good look at a lot of them. At 9 am one of the zoo stores opened, so I purchased a bag of souvenirs before heading to my next stop.

A brief jaunt down the Red Line brought me to the FBI building. I entered the building, through the tourist entrance, and promptly set off the metal detectors. After emptying $5 of quarters from my pockets into the bowl, and a smirk from the security guard, I was inside. I didn’t have time to wait for the tour, but I did have time to hit the FBI store. Which I did. After buying more souvenirs than I really needed, I was ready to see the next place on my list.

The Hardrock Cafe! What tourist destination is complete without a Hardrock Cafe? I looked at all the available merchandise, and finally decided on the standard white t-shirt. At $18, it was among the most expensive things in my wardrobe, but it was the Hardrock Cafe. I couldn’t leave without a t-shirt.

Standing outside the Hardrock Cafe with my backpack full of souvenirs and pockets full of quarters, I studied my maps and tried to figure out how to make it to that place called ‘The Mall’. ‘The Mall’, from my reading, was not a ‘mall’ at all, but a collection of some of the most famous monuments and museums in the world. I stopped a man on his way to work to make sure I was heading in the right direction – I had already wasted enough time walking the wrong way to the zoo – and after he pointed me the right way, I was off.

As I approached Constitution Ave, I spotted perhaps one of the most exciting things of my trip: a street lined with discount souvenir carts! How could I go wrong with 3 t-shirts for $10? I loaded up on more souvenirs, and purchased a popsicle from a food vendor. I sat on the curb outside the American History Museum and ate quickly, so as not to waste any time that I could be spending admiring the Smithsonian artifacts.

Inside, there was so much to see: gowns of the first ladies, a giant statue of President Washington in Roman get-up, the ruby red slippers. I sat in a booth to buy a picture of me with President Clinton. With a $5 price tag, it was a nice way to empty my pockets. I made it to the Smithsonian store in the basement, where – you guessed it – I filled up what little space I had left in my backpack with even more souvenirs.

I exited the museum from the ‘Mall exit’, and didn’t realize what was in store for me. I knew there was a metro stop – and I was in desperate need of transportation back to my Very Important Interview – and so that was where I was headed. As I walked across the green lawn of ‘The Mall’, I realized that I had the Washington Monument to my right, and the Capitol building to my left. I dug out my disposable camera, and snapped a few pics before continuing on my way to find that post with the infamous ‘M’. I found the ‘M’-marks-the-metro post and rode the escalator down. I hopped on the next Orange Line train in the direction of Vienna, and got off at my stop.

Luckily for me, there were payphones just outside the metro station. Also luckily for me, I still managed to have the 35 cents necessary for a phone call to the hotel. I didn’t have time to go back to the hotel and still make it to my interview, so when the shuttle driver arrived, I convinced him to take me to my interview.

And so I arrived at my interview, a little damp from spending the morning in the rain, and with a backpack stuffed with mementos of my adventures.

I have since been to many places: Manhattan, Paris, Boston, Gettysburg, Casablanca, Rome, Hershey, Cozumel, Houston, Barcelona, Madrid … more places than I can even recall right now. But DC will always be special, because it was my first. And it’s the only city that I have ever explored by myself. I ended up getting that internship, and spent much of the following summer exploring the city on my weekends – sometimes with roommates, sometimes with fellow interns – but often by myself. They say that one of the best ways to get to know yourself is to travel somewhere new, by yourself. You have no safety net, no one else to fall back on to decide what you should do or what you should see. I love DC because it reminds me of being young, and of thinking that the world is a wondrous place; it reminds me that I am capable of a new challenge; and it reminds me that you don’t really need an entire backpack of souvenirs to remember the trip.

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home improvements

zen

For people who know me in real life, they know I’ve been talking about building my rock garden for over a year. After 6 months of backbreaking work to build my raised flower bed (all I can say is, that thing better last FOREVER), I was sick of the endeavor, and my flower bed sat empty. Finished, but empty.

Until this last Saturday, when I woke up and decided that it was time. It was time to embrace my sliver of Japanese heritage, and build my rock garden.

All in all, it only took a day to complete. 3 trips to Home Depot, but only an afternoon of work. And I have to say, the completed project looks pretty nice.

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home improvements

kitchen: before and after

I’ve got all my ‘after’ pics in the kitchen album. For dramatic purposes, though, I just wanted to post the pics side by side. Enjoy!
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a beautiful house

As I was walking downstairs this morning, in my big white fluffy robe, I saw my living room and thought, what a nice house! And the feeling continued as I actually got to the main level and was able to see the dining room and kitchen.

I know it’s my house, and I see it every day, but it’s so nice to love the place I live – and for it to feel like home.

Since leaving home for college, this is the longest I have ever lived in the same place. This is the longest I have ever gone without packing all my stuff up and moving somewhere new. I was worried that I would start to get restless, that I would get the itch to move on – but I am finding it’s actually kind of nice to put down some roots.

I know my neighbors! Not all of them, but quite a few. When you plan to live somewhere longer than your 6 or 12 month lease, there’s actually some incentive to chat with the neighbors. There’s the possibility that you could be seeing them for years – and there’s the possibility that these could be life-long friendships.

I have pictures hanging on the walls! I have never decorated the walls of the places I have lived in. The one apartment that I lived in all by myself, no roommates, I didn’t put a single nail in the wall. It was a most barren place. I didn’t actually hang the pictures on the walls myself – my husband’s mother helped me out with that – but I really like having artwork on the walls. I especially love the picture hanging above the couch, it’s the first thing I see when coming downstairs in the morning. I know my husband doesn’t get it – or its price tag (it really was quite a steal, I could have spent $$$$ on artwork that big) – but I love it.

I have matching furniture! The living room has a matching recliner, sofa, and chair. The end tables match the coffee table. The dining room actually has a table in it! I really feel like an adult now – the college days of mismatched goodwill goods are behind me, as well as the newly married merging of random furniture days. Most all the furniture in the house was purchased after we got married – and the few pieces left, we are itching to get rid of.

Our house still needs work – I would love to get rid of the popcorn ceilings upstairs, and there is some stenciling and wallpaper bordering that needs to go – but that doesn’t mean I don’t love my house. It’s my house – it’s a work in progress – and it’s beautiful.

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home improvements

granite countertops

The kitchen is coming along swimmingly! My husband is stressed because everything is a mess – and we can’t watch tv in the living room due to a dining room table being between the couch and the tv. Which means we have to watch tv upstairs, without the benefit of a tivo. Which means we actually have to watch shows when they come on! And with commercials. It’s quite a sacrifice, but I think maybe we can tough it out for a few more days.

In my attempt to converse with the tile guy who doesn’t know much english, I think I may have told him to work 10 hours tomorrow. 🙁 That really wasn’t my intent – I just wanted to know how much longer it was going to take. I really don’t care if it takes 2 more days or 4 more days, I was just curious. I think he asked me how long he could stay tomorrow, he pointed to his watch and suggested 5 or 6, and I said 5, to try to minimize stranger-in-the-house-stress on my husband. Then I think he asked how early he could come, and I said 7 was fine, we’re both out of the house by then. He seemed very happy about the prospect of coming at 7, so I hope that means he’s excited at the prospect of being able to leave at 3.

The countertop guy is coming tomorrow, to give me a quote on new countertops. Which means I should probably decide on a color. I’m the most useless girl on the planet, I have no eye for color whatsoever. (Back on the west coast, my interior-design-degreed mother is wondering where she went wrong …)

I have another dilemma, with the lighting in the kitchen. Santana suggested recessed lighting, which I think will look really nice. ($$$Resale Value$$$) The problem is, is that recessed lighting is not as bright as the existing 2-tube flourescent light fixture we have in the kitchen now. The flourescent light fixture that my husband LOVES. Because it is so bright. I found a picture at homedepot.com of a kitchen with a flourescent light, as well as recessed lighting, so I’ll see if Santana will do that. I just got back from a trip to the real home depot, where I found the flourescent light fixture that I hate the least. It turns out, I hate all light fixtures. A lot. I think they are all ugly. Why can’t someone make nice light fixtures? Maybe THAT will be my new job. Light fixture designer …

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home improvements

guess what!

I’m getting a new kitchen! At least, I’m getting as much of a new kitchen as my tax return will buy. At this very moment, iPhoto on my mac mini is uploading the pics I took of my ‘before’ kitchen up to my gallery – and you will get to see the very … interesting … decorating choices that were made by the previous owners. Actually, you won’t get to see ALL the choices. The matching curtains and canisters have long since met their maker.

Day one of the renovation is over, and the wallpaper is GONE!! The linoleum with the little bitty flowers is hidden forever under a layer of those concrete-tile-base things. (If I woulda known they were just putting everything OVER the linoleum, I totally woulda mopped. There’s a gross sticky coke spill that has now been immortalized …)

The bad thing about the renovations, is that we have to lock the kitties up. And they hate being locked up. Especially when there are evil creatures banging about in the kitchen. We both stayed home today and discovered that Havok seems to have discovered how to remove slats from the basement utility room door – so we have decided to lock the kitties up tomorrow in the master suite, upstairs. I’m not entirely thrilled about having a litter box in our master bathroom, but I am even less thrilled about the idea of our kitties running out the open front door to escape from the evil kitchen-mongers. So there will be a litter box in my master bathroom tomorrow … even though I am sure Forge will prefer the bathroom sink. (He’s a sensitive pooper. sigh.)

But the GREAT thing about the renovations, is that I will soon have a new kitchen! At the end of this week, I will have beautiful tile floors and wonderfully clean, freshly painted walls. And did I mention crown molding? And NO hideous frou-frou ceiling fan ceiling dilly bob. And then will come the new appliances. And – if there is money left over – we will get new countertops. And THEN I am going to take up cooking and entertaining in my new kitchen. Ok, so maybe not that last thing …